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Where do I Fit?
I’m feeling like everyone I meet is made from the same cloth. Just when I think I have found love or a perfect friend, they leave. I tried everything to make them come back or stay but I look like the fool or as if I’m begging. I want a future packed with good people around me but how do I get that if they all keep leaving me?
~ Where do I Fit?
Dear Where do I Fit?
There is a saying: “People come into your life for a reason or a season,” which to me means each person entering your life has a lesson to share with you, and once you get it, they go on to share with someone else who needs to learn it. This may sound weird to you right now, but I found if you look at “goodbye” not as a negative but as a great gift, you will start to see the lesson. Example: yea, he/she stomped all over your heart, lied to your face, used you… then left. The lesson: you deserved better, so start acting like it. Let them go. The gift: time to heal and rebuild your self-esteem while discovering this type of people you don’t want in your life.
I found something I want to share, which may help in the process of finding out who you want to have in your life…and the keyword is WHO you want. But first, you must let go of the past hurt pain — the little thing I like to call luggage.